Heartfelt Newsroom
"Gathering at Hospice of Humboldt for Local Hero and Dedicated Recology Driver"
KIEM-TV REDWOOD NEWS | September 16, 2023
EUREKA, CA.—Around 25 Recology trucks lined up in front of the Hospice of Humboldt on September 15th, to honor their co-worker and beloved friend, Matt Taylor–who’s dedicated around 18 years to Recology; and even more years to the community. “We came together today on a short call,” Gerald Watkins, a Recology driver for 17 years said. “We got all these guys really together and to come together just to show support, care and love that he has with Recology and the teamsters,” He was met with dozens of co-workers, family and friends. “I’ve known Matt since junior high, that’s when I first met him. We had lost contact through the years and stuff, and then he came to work with us,” Leonard Wonnacott, a Recology driver for 22 years said. “I was like, oh, hey, you’re here. you know? And then it just went from there,you know? He’s like, the best dude you could possibly work with.” “Matt, to me, is a friend I’ve had for 30 years, a family friend and a good friend and a coworker that I’ve been working with for the past 17 years and someone that will do anything for you. He’s a giver, not much of a taker,” Watkins said. Matt has been battling Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer. After receiving care at St. Joseph’s, he will now reside at the hospice Throughout his life many at the gathering said he was always the one to put others first. “He runs garbage out in the city of Eureka, and he touches the lives of about 3500 residents every day, like many of our drivers do out here, and he’s made friends with people and people look forward to seeing him. You can look at Facebook pages right now and you may hear stories about him that I’ve never heard before,” General Manager at Recology, Linda Wise said. “He never is there to tell you what you could do for him, he’s always had thought about what he could do for you.” Though the gathering was short notice the turnout was huge, and the hospice said that this was the first time anything like this had happened at their facility. “We heard this morning that a patient was being transported from the hospital into our hospice house. He’s obviously very well-loved in the neighborhood and in this community, I mean, the show of support is just incredible,” CEO of Hospice of Humboldt, Dianne Keating said. “All the staff literally came outside because it’s just such a testament to the love that this person has. and it’s just really a credit to the hospice house that we can serve this person at the end of life and provide all the love and support not only to him but to all of his family and friends.” Tears were shed, stories were told, and most importantly–love was felt throughout the gathering as they said goodbye to a dear friend, father, and community member.
"Mr. & Mrs. Roberts - hand in hand"
Hospice of Humboldt Team | September 2023
Photos: Caryl & Edgar Roberts at the Ida Emmerson Hospice House.
We had the honor and privilege of speaking with Edgar Jr. and his lovely wife, Caryl while they were staying at our Ida Emmerson Hospice House. These two high school sweethearts have been on a lifetime of journeys together, including their very last chapter. Caryl and Edgar Jr. met back in 1958 in Vista, California. Caryl had just turned 16 and Edgar Jr., 17. Edgar shared with us his memory of the first time he held Caryl’s hand. It was at the movie theater in 1958 and he said his arm got so sore but he was not going to let go of her hand! And as we spoke with them that day, 65 years later, they were still holding hands. Caryl held out on marriage for several years saying Edgar had some “growing up to do”. So, he enlisted in the Army, spending three years in Europe. In 1967, they were married and a year later had their first child, Edgar, III. Shortly after baby Edgar’s arrival, they adopted another little boy, Chris. They dearly loved their kids through all the challenges that can come with parenthood. They bought their first home and lived there together happily for 50 years, Edgar working for a telephone company and Caryl as a stay at home mom. A year and a half ago, they sold their home and moved to Loleta to be closer to Edgar, III and his wife, as they were growing older and showing some early signs of decline. Caryl came onto Hospice service in January after rapid, unplanned weight loss and suspected recurrence of cancer. Edgar, was enrolled onto Hospice service in July, due to his advancing heart disease. Two weeks ago, their son and daughter-in-law expressed the need for a respite break- they were exhausted and wanting time to reconnect. We were able to arrange for both Caryl and Edgar to come to the Ida Emmerson Hospice House that next day. Generally, our rooms at the Hospice House are private, however Simone, one of our Hospice House nurses had the wonderful idea of putting two hospital beds into one room and opening up the empty room into a “day room” for the couple. They awoke each morning to breakfast and then would be moved into their day room to watch their favorite TV programs together. After dinner they would go back to what Edgar called their honeymoon suite and tucked each other into bed for the night. Edgar and Caryl truly loved their stay at the Hospice House, sharing that they were grateful for the beautiful view of redwood trees and the amazing staff that cared for them while their son and daughter-in-law got a little break. Sweetly, Edgar couldn’t wait to have their love story told and shared with our community. Cheers to you, Edgar and Caryl and to your life time of loving each other! We’re honored to walk alongside you through this chapter of your lives!
A photographer's gift
Art show, sale of Solon Holstein’s work to raise funds for Hospice of Humboldt
By Heather Shelton
Times-Standard Newspaper | August 20, 2023
Photo: Pictured is one of the photographs by Solon Holstein that will be for sale at the Hospice of Humboldt fundraiser.
Solon Holstein was a neuro-clinical psychologist in private practice in Eureka for 35 years before he retired. He also served as director of the North Coast Center for Pain Management in conjunction with Humboldt Neurology. After retiring 25 years ago, Holstein shifted paths, becoming passionate about photography and capturing “the magnificence of nature as I saw it.” “When young, I was always in a hurry to get somewhere,” he said. “I never really saw the beauty of the world around me. Photography taught me to stop and really look.” Now, Holstein is heading down yet another road unknown. He is dying. He has lymphoma, and is under the care of Hospice of Humboldt. “I am most grateful for their loving and attentive care,” Holstein said. Shelley, Holstein’s wife of 50 years, added, “Hospice is amazing in terms of really caring for him. They are helping him through this dying process and making him as comfortable as possible and making him feel safe, providing him with whatever he needs and just being there for him.” Next weekend, the Holsteins are holding a special fundraiser to give back to the nonprofit Hospice of Humboldt, which has been providing heartfelt end-of-life care and bereavement services to all who need them in northern Humboldt County since 1979. A photography show of Solon Holstein’s work will take place Saturday and Sunday, Aug. 26 and 27, at The Barn, 6687 Humboldt Hill Road, Eureka. Everyone is welcome. All proceeds from art sales will go to Hospice of Humboldt. Shelley Holstein says she came up with the idea for this fundraiser one day after walking into her husband’s photography studio, which is located in their home. “I went, ‘Oh, my God, what am I going to do with all of these photographs? He (has) at least 50 framed photographs and maybe a couple hundred other photographs in folders, etc.,” she said. “… In reality, I think there’s something like 34,000 on his computer.” She added, “I was sitting around talking to my friends and we thought, ‘Why don’t we have a show of all of his wonderful photographs? Why not honor him by showing all of these amazing photographs that he’s been taking.” Solon Holstein first got interested in photography about three decades ago, shortly after he and his wife purchased a lake house in the small town of Rome, Maine. “This friend and he would love to go out into the wilderness and photography,” Shelley Holstein said. “Solon just started to look at all of this beauty. He bought himself a really great camera, and then he used to love to go out in the kayak and get as close as you’re allowed to get to loons, which isn’t that close. … So, he started to buy bigger lenses, he bought bigger cameras, he bought filters. “We used to laugh at him, because he’d carry around this huge bag with all this equipment. … He just had a love of this art that was amazing,” she said. Over the years, her husband took photographs of nature both near and far, including in different parts of Europe, the Balkans, Patagonia and, most notably, Maine, where he reveled in photographing birds. All sales of Solon Holstein’s photography next weekend will be by donation, with minimum suggested donations posted by each piece. Shelley Holstein plans to be at the sale much of the time, and hopes her husband may also make an appearance. “We’re going to hope that Solon can come some of the time,” she said. “We’re not sure how he’s going to feel on any particular day. … We hope he’ll come. Anyone who knows him knows he’s the kindest, sweetest, loving man who has this amazingly artistic (talent).” Hospice of Humboldt CEO Dianne Keating says she is “incredibly grateful” the Holsteins are hosting this photography fundraiser. “It is always an honor to hear that others want to fund raise on our behalf, and especially touching when it’s from patients and families that our team is currently supporting through end of life,” Keating said. “… The heartfelt care and grief support services we have provided for nearly 45 years has only been possible through a deep commitment to our mission, the generosity of our community and from supporters like Solon and Shelley.”
"Humboldt County Fog Dogs shoot pool, help Hospice"
Mad River Union | July 20, 2023
Photo: Fog Dogs President, Tim Farabi (center), Dianne Keating, Hospice of Humboldt CEO, and Tia Baratelle, Hospice of Humboldt director of development, pose with members of the Fog Dogs in front of the Idea Emmerson Hospice House.
EUREKA – Hospice of Humboldt (HoH) was the fortunate recipient of Humboldt County Fog Dogs motorcycle club’s 18th annual pool tournament. This popular event was held on Saturday, May 13 at Louie’s Sports Bar. “Dozens of people showed up to play pool and many businesses supported this event with amazing prizes for the silent auction.” said Tia Baratelle, director of development, Hospice of Humboldt. “It was so much fun and we are so grateful for all the support we have received from the Fog Dogs!” All of the proceeds from their event will benefit compassionate care in Humboldt County. On Saturday, July 8, the Fog Dogs road up on their motorcycles to personally present the check in front of the Ida Emmerson Hospice House. “We love it when they come visit our campus, they bring so much joy and their kind spirits are infectious.” said Dianne Keating, CEO, Hospice of Humboldt. “Truly a very special thank you to the Fog Dogs from all of us at HoH.” “We love putting on the pool tournament every year.” said Fog Dogs President, Tim Farabi. “It is our way of giving back to our community by providing the proceeds of our event to different local organizations. This year we were proud to again raise funds for Hospice of Humboldt; we are so fortunate to have them providing care in our community. Like so many of us in Humboldt County, some of our Fog Dogs and their families have been personally helped by Hospice of Humboldt.”
Trees Please
Several groups hold Arbor Week plantings in Eureka, beyond
By Heather Shelton
Times-Standard Newspaper | March 12, 2023
Photo: Pictured are members of the Eureka Sequoia Garden Club planting a tree at Hospice of Humboldt during Arbor Week 2022.
There will be even more trees growing in Humboldt County in the coming days as several local groups plant purple magnolia, Catalina ironwood and other varieties in observance of California Arbor Week, which runs through Tuesday. National Arbor Day is on April 28. “Some states have adopted the same date as National Arbor Day. However, others have selected a different date, for various reasons, often due to climate. California selected March 7, which is (the late horticulturist) Luther Burbank’s birthday. It has since been expanded to Arbor Week, March 7 to 14,” said Chuck Goodwin, a member of the Eureka Sequoia Garden Club since 2009 and a life member of California Garden Clubs, Inc. He’s the current Humboldt District, CGCI, and Pacific Region Garden Club Arbor Day chairman. The Eureka Sequoia Garden Club, founded in 1967, is a member of California Garden Clubs, Inc. and the Humboldt District, California Garden Clubs, Inc. “Some of the objectives of the ESGC are to create and promote interest in horticulture and gardening and to engage in civic beautification. Planting trees in our communities is one of the ways we achieve these objectives,” Goodwin said. The Eureka Sequoia Garden Club is celebrating California Arbor Week this year by planting trees at three different locations. A purple magnolia tree — courtesy of Miller Farms Nursery in McKinleyville — will be placed at Hospice of Humboldt in Eureka on March 23. Pictured are members of the Eureka Sequoia Garden Club planting a tree at Hospice of Humboldt during Arbor Week 2022. (Submitted) “We appreciate the support we receive from the Eureka Sequoia Garden Club. It’s groups like this that make Humboldt County unique and special,” said Hospice of Humboldt Director of Development Tia Baratelle. “We are honored they choose to share their beautiful trees with us on our campus.” She added, “We often refer to our campus that includes the Ida Emmerson Hospice House as a gem in our community. It is truly one of kind and we are lucky to have something like this in a rural county, like Humboldt. It is only because of local donors and supporters this gem shines bright behind the redwood curtain. Staff, patients and their families often say that our campus provides a sense of peace and tranquility. As one patient at the hospice house explained it, ‘This is a place where you inhale courage and exhale fear.’ These trees provide the oxygen and strength that allow us to provide compassionate care throughout our community 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year.” On March 22, club members will plant a second apple tree — an “Apple Babe” variety — at Peninsula Union Elementary School in Samoa. “This was donated by our garden friends at Pierson’s Nursery,” Goodwin said. “The apple tree will join one planted last year — during Arbor Day — to ensure cross-pollination of the trees and to provide students with apples in the future.” Soon, as weather permits, club members will also be planting a Princess Bush at Timber Ridge, Eureka, Goodwin said. On the first National Arbor Day — celebrated in Nebraska in April 1872 — an estimated one million trees were planted on the treeless prairie “thanks to the passion and gusto of a tree-lover named J. Sterling Morton,” Goodwin said. The Eureka Sequoia Garden Club has held an annual Arbor Day event since 1984 by planting trees at various locations, including Sequoia Park Zoo and the park’s duck pond and gardens, the Humboldt Senior Resource Center, the Adorni Center and other venues, as well as at many churches and schools. “Our members have lots of community interests in addition to garden clubbing and (they) make suggestions about where a new tree planting might be appropriate to the landscaping,” Goodwin said. “We work closely with each location to fit into their plans and ensure the new trees will have a happy home. “Our local garden centers have been very generous by donating trees for free or at a reduced price,” he said. “In addition to their natural ability to improve air quality, trees are a wonderful way to soften the landscape and improve the overall atmosphere of the area. ESGC selects trees that will grow successfully in our climate.” For more information about the Eureka Sequoia Garden Club, go to https://www.californiagardenclubs.com/eurekasequoia/ or call 707-845-4376. Keep Eureka Beautiful Also celebrating Arbor Week is the local group called Keep Eureka Beautiful, an all-volunteer effort founded in 1996 to help build civic pride in Eureka and to promote beautification as a community building and economic development tool. One of the main ways that Keep Eureka Beautiful does that is through its “street tree” program, which gives city residents the opportunity to get a tree planted in front of their home at no charge. “Keep Eureka Beautiful volunteers have planted over 1,200 street trees in the past 16 years. Trees are free and KEB volunteers will do the planting,” said Keep Eureka Beautiful board member Michele McKeegan. On March 9, Keep Eureka Beautiful volunteers and Eureka High School students held another planting, placing a street tree along the waterfront at First and H streets in Eureka. “The tree is … a Catalina ironwood, which the other trees on First Street between the Adorni and F Street are,” McKeegan said. “There have been troubles with vandalism down there and so we’ll be replacing a vandalized tree. That’s thought to be the best response to vandalism, to replant ASAP, although sometimes it’s discouraging. But if you look at some of the other Catalina ironwoods in that strip, some are doing well and will be good, strong trees someday.” Street trees, she said, offer many benefits to the city. “They slow traffic, protecting pedestrians in that busy part of town, and they soften the landscape,” McKeegan said. “They show that we are a city that cares — about our people, about the birds and other creatures that live in trees, and about the air and water which they filter and clean.” For more information about Keep Eureka Beautiful’s street tree program, go to https://keepeurekabeautiful.com/street-trees/.
"So blessed"
Hospice of Humboldt has provided patient-centered care since 1979
Times-Standard Newspaper | March 8, 2023
Photo: Dianne & Larry Bitte (Courtesy of Dianne Bitte)
The Carter Center recently announced that former President Jimmy Carter is in home hospice care. This news raises questions for many Americans: What is hospice care? How does it differ from palliative care? Why do people choose hospice or palliative care? How do people access these types of care? The staff at Hospice of Humboldt answers these questions and more here: “Hospice of Humboldt was created in 1979 with the philosophy that every person deserves to live out their life with respect and dignity, alert and free of pain, and in an environment that promotes quality of life,” said Tia Baratelle, director of development, Hospice of Humboldt. “There is a focus on the patient’s goals and wishes at all times. Whether they choose to live out their life in restful solitude or surrounded by loved ones at home — sometimes that ‘home’ may be a residential care facility, skilled nursing facility or at the Ida Emmerson Hospice House — the care provided by HoH is always patient-centered.” Hospice care provides compassionate medical care, eases communication and offers support to families, Baratelle explained. The hospice care team includes hospice professionals and volunteers with deeply caring hearts and a listening ear. Hospice of Humboldt also offers a separate home-based palliative care program, she said. “Palliative care gives relief from the symptoms and stress that arise when someone is coping with a serious illness,” Baratelle said. “This supportive care program is available even if a person is still receiving curative treatment, it offers an extra layer of in-home support to individuals and families, which allows people to live their life to the fullest extent possible.” Baratelle and the folks at Hospice of Humboldt also shared this letter from Dianne Bitte, who recently sent the letter to Hospice of Humboldt: Bitte’s letter said, “My husband, Larry Bitte, resided in the Ida Emmerson Hospice House for many months in 2022. His care was beyond words due to their divine professionalism and anticipation of his physical, spiritual and mental needs. “Visiting him every day was a joy and a privilege. The Hospice House sits on 12 iconic redwood acres and it is welcoming in many ways of beautiful proportions with patios outside patient rooms and sumptuous views, close to the nurses’ station, however, the crème de la crème is the devotion and excellence of each staff member. Their teamwork is without parallel. They carry an unsurpassed dignity for the patients and their families in the midst of dying. Every day they never failed to both anticipate and fulfill every need. Additionally, there are spiritual caregivers and grief support counselors available for balance and grieving: Their services are available for a full year. “We are so blessed to live in a community that literately stepped up and donated so many comfortable furnishings, even an outside playground for little visitors. No corner was left undone. A dining and living room are available for family and friends. Larry had visitors from Oregon, Washington and Alaska. All were blown away by the Hospice House and his level of care. “Volunteers, often with four legged friends, visit on a regular basis and, at the ending of our involuntary isolation, we had live musicians and choirs that sung to us. “After visiting every day for months, we miss each of them dearly: They became our surrogate family as Larry faded away. Their hearts and spirits were so constant, a source of comfort and support. We all felt so blessed and want to give back after our mourning has ebbed. — Gratefully yours, Dianne (wife) and Lisa (daughter) Bitte Baratelle says that Hospice of Humboldt is grateful for the continued community support. “Donations help provide essential care that is needed in our community,” said Baratelle. Donations can be made via www.hospiceofhumboldt.org, or by calling 707-445-8443 or mailing a donation to 3327 Timber Fall Court, Eureka, CA, 95503. Hospice of Humboldt has been serving families locally since 1979, has a staff of over 100 employees and works with nearly 80 volunteers.
The Hospice Shop - 2023 Arcata Business of the Year
February 2023
On Saturday, February 18th, staff and volunteers were honored to be presented by the Arcata City Council the 2023 Business of the Year award for our Hospice Shop thrift store! Thank you, Arcata Chamber of Commerce, for hosting this fun event and for all your efforts on behalf of our community. As you can see, we had a great time! 😊 The Hospice Shop is located at 575 H Street in Arcata! All proceeds support the heartfelt care provided to our patients and their families.
Grief and the holidays
By Heather Shelton
Times-Standard Newspaper | December 18, 2022
Photo: Pictured on the Hospice of Humboldt campus in Eureka are Grief Support Services counselors Mayra Samano and Mandy Mauerman.
Many people are filled with happiness and joy this time of year, but for those dealing with loss and grief, the coming days can be especially challenging. “The holiday season seems to bring constant messages to be excited, giving and close to family and friends, yet those who are grieving may approach this time with sadness and even a sense of dread as they are remembering the loss of loved ones. While friends and family gather, those who are grieving may feel sad and lonely,” said Jeanne Reilly, director of social services with Hospice of Humboldt in Eureka. (She oversees the Grief Support Services department.) Some people may or may not experience some of the following changes while they are amid the grieving process, she said. • Physical changes: Feeling tired, having a lack of energy and even numbness, not sleeping or sleeping a lot. • Emotional changes: Loneliness, feeling abandoned or feelings of guilt or regret, shock, numbness, restlessness, relief after a prolonged or difficult illness, fear about resulting changes in one’s life such as home, job, financial support. • Mental changes: Difficulty concentrating or becoming forgetful, struggling to follow through on simple tasks, a lack of interest in daily affairs, questioning the meaning and purpose of life. • Other changes: Some may tend to isolate or withdraw socially and some may expect their loved one to call or they may sense the loved one’s presence. Reilly offers a few suggestions that may ease the pain and assist in the healing process, but she says, “Please keep in mind that there is no single right way to be in your grief. Do what is comfortable to you.” • Acknowledge that it won’t be the same this time (this year). • Express your needs — let others know what might be helpful. • Plan ahead — continue old rituals or create new ones. “The key is to practice rituals and activities that honor your personal needs and the memory of your loved one,” Reilly said. • Take time to reflect and treasure your memories — share stories, gather photos for an album, play a loved one’s favorite music, etc. “There are no hard and fast rules about how people grieve. Grief may be more intense and prolonged the closer one is to the person that died,” Reilly said. “Through the grieving process,” she said, “we gradually accept the loss and we heal. There is still sadness, but it is not the deep hurt we have felt before. With the sadness, we still have happy memories of our loved one who has died.” Reilly offers several tools people can use to help themselves with grief and sadness: • Be patient with yourself. Give yourself time for healing. • Find supportive, trustworthy friends and family, and share feelings honestly. Feelings are neither right nor wrong, they just “are.” • Take one day at a time and soon those days will become weeks. • Seek help from those who know how to help you heal. • Grief can lead to physical symptoms. “Unexpressed words or tears can cause lumps in your throat. Anger held inside can lead to headaches or upset stomach,” Reilly said. • Keep a regular schedule, if possible. Maintain realistic goals and expectations. • Focus on taking care of yourself. Be aware of your body’s need for nutrition, rest and exercise. “If you notice something worrisome, seek professional support,” she said. To help people with the grieving process, Hospice of Humboldt provides grief support services for individuals and in groups. Grief support counselors provide emotional support and grief education to individuals and families. Hospice of Humboldt also offers free grief support groups every week with trained facilitators. For more information about these groups, call 707-267-9801. “Every week people gather to share their experiences of grieving,” Reilly said. “The focus is on creating a safe place to express and heal feelings that come with grief. These meetings are facilitated by bereavement volunteers who are trained and supervised by grief support counselors.” Hospice of Humboldt also offers free individual sessions for children and will be offering a teen group in the spring of 2023. Reilly shares some other resources that could be helpful: • North Coast Association of Mental Health Professionals: This website provides an extensive list of mental health professionals in the area. www.ncamhp.org. • Two Feathers Native American Family Services: Counseling and Native youth suicide prevention programs. 707-839-1933. • Good Grief: Provides tips and support. www.good-grief.org. • Realize the Gift: An extensive web-based resource hosted by Gemini Adams, grief expert and multiple award-winning author of “Your Legacy of Love: Realize the Gift in Goodbye,” offering hundreds of articles, expert advice sections and links to recommended organizations, books, films and websites relating to all end-of-life and grief issues. www.realizethegift.com. • The Dinner Party: A worldwide community of 20- and 30-somethings who have experienced the loss of a parent, partner, child, sibling, other close family member or close friend. TheDinnerParty.org. • Refuge In Grief: Blog, videos, even a 30-day “Writing Your Grief” course. www.refugeingrief.com. • Dougy Center: A national support center where children, teens, young adults and their families grieving a death can share their experiences. www.dougy.org. • Compassionate Friends: Assists families toward the positive resolution of grief following the death of a child of any age and provides information to help others be supportive. www.compassionatefriends.org. • Adults Alternatives to Suicide Zoom peer support group: Free online group for ages 18 and up. Meets Mondays, 6 to 7:30 p.m. Zoom meeting ID: 160 522 9687. Email Erik at mystic@moonpearl.org. • Humboldt County Mental Health Crisis Line: 707-445-771. • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call for national, confidential, anonymous, 24/7 crisis line, 1-800-273-8255. Ayuda en Español: 1-888-628-9454. This site also has resources for helping yourself and others, suicidepreventionlifeline.org. • Crisis Text Line: Free 24/7 support. Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a crisis counselor who can provide support, but not medical advice. www.crisistextline.org. Reilly also offers a few ideas about how people can help their friends and loved ones who are dealing with grief: • Leave them care packages. • Be specific about how you can help. • Ask questions. • Remember big dates and acknowledge little dates. • Just be present, you don’t have to talk. • Share memories of the lost loved one, “Say their name,” she said. • Let them be sad • Be awkward. It’s OK if you do not know what to say. “Your friends/family just need you,” Reilly said. For more information about Hospice of Humboldt — located at 3327 Timber Fall Court, Eureka — call 707-267-9801 or go to https://www.hospiceofhumboldt.org.
"Mr. Harry" gives back: Life lessons & dog hair
By Julie Mastroni, volunteer with Hospice of Humboldt and Guide Dogs for the Blind
Senior News | December 2022
The dog hair is my mom’s fault. My first volunteer memory is clumsily rolling 2-inch strips of old sheets with my mom. I was about 4, so my mom’s explanation was simple: there were people in Mexico who didn’t have bandages and we could help. It was enough information for me to begin learning that I could help someone with my time and that it mattered. Mom always found hours in her busy weeks to help a school, church group, children’s organization or an environmental cause. It’s no surprise after years of watching her volunteer, I did the same. Shortly after my grandmother gracefully died while under hospice care in San Diego, I became a board member for Hospice of Humboldt in 2003. I enjoyed learning about the team-centered care provided so lovingly to hospice patients and their families. I also met the nicest people — everyone had an end-of-life story and volunteered with heartfelt purpose! If giving a little time is good, then giving more must be better. Why be satisfied with a monthly board meeting when you can volunteer 24/7 raising a puppy for Guide Dogs for the Blind (GDB)? At the start of 2012, we brought home Harry, a yellow Labrador puppy from the GDB headquarters in San Rafael. I began the fulltime work of teaching him basic obedience, house manners and socialization, which included attending hospice meetings. By the middle of 2013 our wiggly puppy was a giant dog, ready to return to GDB for formal guide training. Graduation was bittersweet. After months apart, our joyous reunion was soon followed by a tearful goodbye as he headed to Arkansas with his new partner for a career of service. The most common question puppy raisers receive is how we can give up a dog we have loved so deeply? My answer is that our loss is overshadowed by the enormity of our work. Raising a pup that profoundly changes a person’s life is not trivial, so it only follows that our hearts are forever changed. After seven years of guide work, Harry retired and came home to live with us. No longer spry enough to guide, he still went to the front door wanting to work. Hospice had the perfect position: Canine Volunteer. Mr. Harry, as his official nametag reads, accompanies me to the Hospice House several times a week, where he loves (and sheds) on the patients, family members and staff. He happily takes treats, gets ear rubs and naps peacefully at bedsides. He even comes to vigils with me when I have the honor of sitting with someone during their final hours. His deep brown eyes seem to carry the wordless, soulful understanding so often longed for at the end of life. When I talk to my mom, who at 86 is still volunteering, about how meaningful and fulfilling my time with hospice and Harry feels, she smiles knowingly and replies, “I know, honey.” Thanks, Mom.
Hospice of Humboldt observes national event.
By Times-Standard Newspaper | November 16, 2022
Throughout the month of November, Hospice of Humboldt will be joining organizations across the nation celebrating National Hospice and Palliative Care Month. This year’s NHPCM theme is “Meeting you where you are.” For more than 44 years, Hospice of Humboldt has help provide supportive care to thousands of people, allowing them to spend their final months wherever they call home and surrounded by their loved ones. Hospice of Humboldt’s teams craft plans of care that ensure pain management, therapies and treatments that all center on the patients and their loved ones goals and wishes. Hospice care also provides emotional support and advice to help family members become confident caregivers and adjust to the future with grief support services. “At the heart of hospice and palliative care is meeting patients and their loved ones where they are during difficult times when support is needed most,” said Dianne Keating, CEO, Hospice of Humboldt, “National Hospice and Palliative Care month recognizes the crucial role hospice and palliative care providers play in caring for their communities year-round.” Each year, Hospice of Humboldt provides compassionate care to patients ranging in age from infant to over 100 years old. When a patient is not eligible or ready for hospice care, they may benefit from home-based palliative care. “Palliative care is patient and family-centered care that optimizes quality of life by anticipating, preventing, and treating suffering,” said Amy Bruce, director of Palliative Care Services. “Palliative care provides an extra layer of support by addressing physical, emotional, and social, needs guided by patient goals and wishes. One way to celebrate with Hospice of Humboldt this month is by participating in its Light Up a Life season. For more information, visit www.hospiceofhumboldt.org/light-up-a-life or call 707-267-9811. Donations can be made via the Hospice of Humboldt website, www.hospiceofhumboldt.org, by phone at 707-445-8443, or can be mailed to 3327 Timber Fall Court, Eureka, CA, 95503. Hospice of Humboldt has been serving families locally since 1979, has a staff of 100 employees and has more than 75 volunteers.
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"Our House"- Ida Emmerson Hospice House
By Dianne Keating, Hospice of Humboldt Chief Executive Officer
Senior News | October 2022
This month marks the sixth anniversary of when we opened the doors and welcomed our first patient to our Ida Emmerson Hospice House, the first and only specialized end-of-life inpatient care facility on the North Coast. With the theme of this month’s Senior News about houses, I wanted to take the opportunity to talk about “Our House.” I have been a part of the Hospice of Humboldt team for over 21 years, and I have to admit that I often refer to the Hospice House as my fourth child. I am blessed with three amazing biological children, and this “fourth child” is something I am deeply proud to have been a part of making a reality for our community. For over 44 years, Hospice of Humboldt has been providing heartfelt end-of-life care for patients in their usual place of residence — private homes, assisted living facilities or skilled nursing facilities. But not all hospice patients can remain at home, and “Our House” offers a place to die peacefully, comfortably and surrounded by loved ones. “Our House” allows family to be family again instead of 24-hour caregivers. As one resident described it, “There is a spiritual energy in the hospice house and on the ground surrounding it. It is a calm and peaceful place where you inhale courage and exhale fear.” Over the last six years, Ida Emmerson Hospice House has touched so many lives in our community and has positively impacted countless family members. There are certainly many stories to share, but honestly, I can’t share about “Our House” without telling you what this special place meant to me and my family as my own father was ending his life journey. My father was a man of few words, but during his short time at our Hospice House, he bonded with the hospice team and shared with them how much he missed his Portland and San Francisco kids — my two children who lived out of town. They were, in fact, coming home the next weekend to see Papa. When I learned of this conversation, I felt an overwhelming urgency to get them here, and arranged for them to arrive the next day. We all spent the afternoon laughing and reminiscing. Later that day, Dad had a sudden decline and his death became imminent. I felt so blessed to be present with him and my children, holding his hand while he took his last breath. As it has done for so many families, “Our House” provided the support we needed when we needed it most. Both as CEO and a loving daughter, I am forever thankful to everyone involved and the support our community provided to help build the Hospice House, which helps us fulfill our mission to provide heartfelt end-of-life care and grief support services, creating a community in which no one dies alone or afraid, and where all who grieve are comforted. For information, visit hospiceofhumboldt.org
Filling a "large gap"
Hospice of Humboldt expands services to include home-based palliative care
By Times-Standard Newspaper| April 13, 2022
Hospice of Humboldt has been caring for the seriously ill in the community for over 43 years. Now, the nonprofit is taking the next step in expanding its compassionate services to include home-based palliative care. “Hospice of Humboldt is uniquely positioned to fill the large gap in care that currently exists for those in our community suffering from late-stage cancer, pulmonary disease, heart failure and other life-limiting illnesses,” said Karen Ayers, clinical director, palliative care, Hospice of Humboldt. Ayers said, “Currently, these individuals often need to go to the emergency room and endure hospital stays in order to obtain the support they need. Once their symptoms are controlled, they are discharged home, and sadly, this cycle recurs, causing much suffering and stress for the ill individual and their family. Palliative care breaks this cycle of suffering,” Many people with life-threatening illness are coping with complex medical conditions and see a variety of specialists. Palliative care doesn’t replace a patient’s other doctors, or require them to give up curative treatment. The palliative care team provides an extra layer of support to a patient and works collaboratively with their other doctors. “When a seriously ill individual leaves the hospital and moves under the care of a home-based palliative care team, this team, comprised of a medical provider, nurse, social worker and community health worker, is able to meet the needs of the patient and family at home, and support them in defining the goals they have for their care and their life,” said Dr. John Nelson, medical director, Hospice of Humboldt. He added: “The focus on someone as a whole person, rather than a disease to be cured, is what sets palliative care providers apart. This distinct focus and skill set makes hospice providers uniquely situated to provide excellent palliative care.” For more information about palliative care services call 707-267-9880 or for Hospice services, call 707-445-8443. “We want to extend our profound gratitude to Providence St. Joseph’s local Community Health Investment Fund, the Rose Perenin Foundation, and the McLean Foundation for their support to help offset some of the start-up costs of our new home-based palliative care program,” said Dianne Keating, interim CEO for Hospice of Humboldt. To make a donation to Hospice of Humboldt, visit www.hospiceofhumboldt.org, call 707-445-8443, or mail donations to 3327 Timber Fall Court, Eureka, CA, 95503. Hospice of Humboldt has been serving families locally since 1979, has a staff of over 100 employees and works with nearly 100 volunteers. The person-centered care Hospice of Humboldt provides allows patients comfort and dignity and gives families support at a time when they need it most.
A meaningful impact: Hospice of Humboldt seeks volunteers to support patients, families
By Heather Shelton
Times-Standard Newspaper | September 5, 2021
Over 100 volunteers currently donate their time to Hospice of Humboldt, providing office support, engaging in community outreach and helping at the Hospice Shop thrift store. Some of these volunteers offer comfort and support to patients and their families being served by the nonprofit organization, which provides heartfelt end of life care and grief support services throughout northern Humboldt County. “Each patient is offered a care team consisting of a medical provider, nurse, social worker, home health aide, chaplain, grief counselor and patient care volunteer. One of the things that set the volunteer apart is the fact that they have the ability to spend longer lengths of time with each visit. They are able to spend a few hours with the patient, rather than having to leave to care for another patient,” said Dennice Stone, volunteer coordinator. Hospice of Humboldt — located at 3327 Timber Fall Court in Eureka — has been serving families locally for over 42 years, has a staff of more than 100 employees and currently works with 103 volunteers. Hospice of Humboldt provided end of life care to 644 patients and their families last year. Stone said that patient care volunteers go through approximately 16 hours of specialized training and also receive one-on-one training before heading out in the field. Members of the patient care team are also available to offer support to patient care volunteers throughout. “When a volunteer goes into a patient’s home —which includes assisted living facilities and the Ida Emmerson Hospice House — they share compassionate time to do whatever the patient may want,” Stone said. “Common activities include listening to music, reading to them or a favorite hobby like jigsaw puzzles. Patient care volunteers help not only the patient, but also offer the primary caregiver a break — a chance for some quiet time, to go shopping, visit with friends, etc.” Stone added: “If you really want to make a difference in someone’s life that will be treasured forever by their family, be a hospice volunteer. People always remember the unconditional companionship and attention of the volunteer when they lose a loved one.” For people who’d like a different volunteer experience with Hospice of Humboldt, there are plenty of other opportunities, Stone said. “Just as there are many types of staff positions, so too do all Hospice volunteers support our patients and their families in some way,” she said. “The Hospice Shop thrift store in Arcata always needs volunteers. Volunteers can also help with maintaining the beautiful plants and landscaping on the Hospice campus. Grief support volunteers are trained to facilitate community grief support groups. We try to match the individual to a position that will be equally rewarding for them — that way everyone gains from the experience.” For more information about becoming a volunteer or about services provided by Hospice of Humboldt, call 707-267-9813 or visit www.hospiceofhumboldt.org.
Sharing People's Lives - My Best Job Ever
By Malcolm Campbell, Hospice of Humboldt volunteer since 2008
Senior News | September 2021
“Best job I ever had!” That’s a recurring line spoken by Brad Pitt’s character and his tank crew in the 2014 World War II movie, “Fury.” Thankfully, I’ve never had the “best job” of being inside an Army tank during combat, but I have had two other “best jobs” — is that even possible? I began my best paying job in 1977 when I was hired as a UPS driver here in Eureka. That career lasted 30+ years, and although it was a lot of hard work (think Christmas), it was also fulfilling. A UPS driver on any given day can fill any number of roles, including healthcare provider, Santa elf, a first responder, or the last link in a chain conveying a precious family heirloom. It was easy to find excitement out on the road each day. I once came upon a motorcycle accident and (much to my boss’s dismay) transported the very bloody rider a mile to his friend’s house where he could get help and medical attention. I witnessed a woman being assaulted and pushed from her abuser’s pickup truck before he sped away, leaving her slumped in tears. Despite being previously admonished to not transport anyone, I scooped her up and delivered her minutes later to the Fortuna Police Department, where she could receive the help she needed. I’ve been met at the front door by a handgun-wielding woman saying: “I don’t answer the door after dark without THIS.” Another knock was answered with the door being flung wide open by a very naked man, who immediately exclaimed: “OH! I was expecting my brother!” Now figure that out! Every UPS driver has no shortage of funny, outrageous, heart-warming or heroic stories. My other “best job” is the one I currently hold, which is as a volunteer with Hospice of Humboldt for the past 13 years. I called my UPS job my actual paying job, but that certainly doesn’t mean this volunteer role is any less rewarding. As a patient care volunteer, I get the opportunity and the honor of being a companion to a patient near the end of life, and often not so near the end. I’ve been matched with three different patients who lived 1.5, 2, and 2.5 years on Hospice service. Hospice is much more about living than it is about dying, and as a patient care volunteer, I get to be present and learn about a precious life of some wonderful people. I’ve been able to sit with one patient for a few hours on her 107th birthday, enjoyed coffee and pie and vintage TV Westerns with another, recorded wonderful audio stories told by a delightful patient/storyteller, and photographed patients surrounded by family members so the family could have a lasting visual record of their loved one. On four or five occasions, I’ve had the rare privilege of holding a patient’s hand as they took their final breath and left this Earth.
A love story...
July 2021
Hospice is not always just about compassionate care. Sometimes we help make dying wishes come true. One story we’d like to share from 2021 in memory of a patient who touched all of our hearts and in honor of our staff who go above and beyond the call of duty. Lisa Campbell’s dying wish was to marry her longtime partner Eric Lee and have his last name on her death certificate. Recognizing the limited amount of time Lisa had to live, Hospice Social Worker, Debbie Patton and Chaplain, Pat Basham quickly put into action a plan to make Lisa’s wish come true. Pat and Debbie traveled around Humboldt County securing a marriage certificate, a wedding dress from The Hospice Shop thrift store, and helped her friends and family make the day complete with flowers and decorations. On July 25, 2021 Lisa and Eric were married in an outdoor ceremony at their home in Redcrest surrounded by loved ones. Lisa said she was incredibly grateful that we helped make her last wish come true. Just six days later Lisa passed away far too soon at the age of 57, but she did so with the knowledge that her death certificate would read, Lisa Campbell Lee.